Protocol,
not drift
Therapy follows a clear protocol with defined aims. You always know what we are targeting and why — not because it's comforting, but because precision requires it.
For people who have already tried a lot — and still live with the same patterns. This is not a new beginning. This is a different level of work.
Therapy follows a clear protocol with defined aims. You always know what we are targeting and why — not because it's comforting, but because precision requires it.
Progress is measured in how you live — sleep, reactions, decisions — not only in how you feel during the hour. Change that doesn't transfer to Monday morning isn't change.
We work at the level of the circuits driving your reactions, not only the reactions themselves. Treating the output while leaving the mechanism intact is maintenance, not resolution.
Sessions are planned, time-limited and transparent. The work has a defined frame, not a permanent open door. Structure is not a constraint — it's the condition for real movement.
“If therapy has been helping you cope for years — that's not a result. That's Plan B that became permanent.”
Most therapy is a black box. You enter, something happens, you hope it helps. This work is different. Every phase has a name, a goal, and a marker that tells you whether it's working.
Not because transparency is comforting — because precision demands it.
A focused history of what is happening now, what you have already tried, and what you want to be different. I check whether this approach is clinically appropriate and propose a preliminary plan.
Clinical fit confirmedStructured questions and clinical screens to map your symptoms, triggers and coping patterns. The aim is to understand which circuits are actually driving your reactions — not just list problems.
Pattern map definedA defined number of sessions aimed at one main outcome, following an agreed protocol. Each session builds on the previous one — the work is cumulative, not random. No sessions that 'felt good but changed nothing'.
One outcome per blockAt set points we pause to compare your functioning with the markers defined at the start. If change is happening, we name it. If not, we adjust — rather than continuing out of habit.
Measured against baselineBased on the review we either close the work, move to a lighter follow-up rhythm, or plan another block for a different pattern. The decision is made together — always grounded in what has actually changed.
Your decision, not obligationNot promises. Clinical descriptors of the shifts that structured trauma work makes possible. Change is measured here — not in sessions.
Waking at 3am. Racing thoughts. Exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix.
Reduced activation at night. Nervous system baseline lowered enough for rest to be restorative.
Responses disproportionate to what's happening. Anger, shutdown, or panic that arrives without warning.
Trigger intensity reduced. More time between stimulus and response — space to choose.
Functioning through sheer will. Crashes after periods of high output. Concentration that fragments under stress.
Sustainable performance without the recovery cost. Less energy spent on managing the baseline.
Patterns that repeat regardless of the person. Distance or intensity. Trust that collapses under pressure.
Relational responses less driven by old circuitry. More capacity for genuine contact — not performed safety.
Chronic tension, bracing, exhaustion. A body that never fully comes off alert.
Lowered somatic activation at rest. Physical cost of the day reduced. Tension that was constant becomes occasional.
Paralysis under pressure. Choices driven by avoidance or urgency, not preference. Regret as a baseline state.
Decisions more grounded in the present situation. Less interference from old threat responses.
These are clinical descriptors of change — not guarantees of specific outcomes. Individual results depend on history, presentation, engagement and other factors discussed in the initial consultation.
We use this session to determine whether this way of working is clinically appropriate for you — and if not, where else to look.
Fixed fee. Paid in advance to confirm your booking. This is a complete, self-contained clinical consultation — not a free intro call.
Therapy is offered in defined blocks built around specific outcomes — not as ongoing weekly sessions with no clear frame. Each block has a clinical rationale. The right frame depends on your history, the pattern you want to address, and what's realistic now. We decide together after the initial consultation.
Each therapy session runs approximately 120 minutes and varies by case. The exact frame and fees are agreed after the initial consultation, so that any package we choose has a clear clinical rationale. There is no obligation to choose a package during the first session.
Structured trauma and addiction work with clear phases and agreed goals — not open-ended exploration.
Focus on underlying patterns and circuits — not only on individual episodes or recent events.
Attention to change in daily functioning — sleep, reactions, relationships, decisions. Not just session-room insight.
Honest, clinically grounded feedback about progress, limits and risks — including when this approach isn't the right fit.
Respect for your nervous system's pace — without pushing for performance or manufactured breakthroughs.
An emergency or crisis service. Not suitable for acute risk situations — other resources exist for that.
24/7 support by messages or social media between sessions.
General life coaching or unstructured wellbeing conversations.
A space where someone else sends you to “fix you” — without your own genuine commitment to the work.
A promise that you will never react again. A focused attempt to change how your system responds — not a guarantee of erasure.
If you have a question not covered here, bring it to the initial consultation. That's exactly what it's for.
“If your reactions still feel stuck after years of work — this level of structure is usually what was missing.”
This approach is typically a good fit if you have already done some work on your trauma or PTSD, but your system still responds as though the threat is present. It's also for people who prefer clear goals, honest feedback, and a focus on functioning — not endless exploration. The initial consultation is where we check this together. If this isn't the right fit, I'll say so directly and point you elsewhere where possible.
“The initial consultation is a complete, standalone clinical assessment — not a sales pitch.”
No commitment before we've met. We always start with an initial consultation, which stands on its own as a clear clinical session. At the end of that meeting, we decide together whether continuing makes sense and, if so, which frame would be appropriate. If you choose not to go further, the consultation still gives you a clear assessment of your situation and options.
“Most prior therapy teaches you to manage the output. This work targets the architecture producing it.”
Many people who come here have had supportive or insight-oriented therapy — sometimes for years — yet their nervous system still reacts as if the threat is present. This work is more structured, organised in blocks with specific outcomes and review points. The focus is on the circuits driving your reactions and on measurable shifts in daily functioning, rather than on how you feel during the session hour. Less talking through everything, more targeting what keeps the pattern in place.
“Trauma and addiction are often parts of the same loop — so we start by mapping how they connect in your specific case.”
In some situations it's safer to stabilise addictive use first; in others, the main leverage is addressing the trauma pattern that keeps pulling you back into the same behaviours. We decide the starting point together in the initial consultation, based on clinical risk, your current stability and what you're realistically able to work with now. The aim is to choose an order that gives you the best chance of real movement — not to do everything at once.
“Online via secure video — which means wherever you are, the work is the same.”
Yes, sessions are held online via encrypted video, allowing me to work with people in different countries. I'm based in the Europe/London timezone and work in English and Russian. We look at time differences in the initial contact and find a stable slot that works for both of us.
“In many cases, yes — medication and structured psychological work aren't mutually exclusive.”
Being on medication or under the care of a psychiatrist doesn't exclude you from working with me, but it needs to be taken into account in how we structure the work. I don't prescribe or change medication, and I expect you to continue working with your doctor on that part of your care. If your situation requires a different level of support than I can safely provide online, I'll name that clearly and we can look at other options together.
“This is not a crisis service — and that boundary is part of what makes the work possible.”
I can't provide immediate responses between sessions or manage acute risk situations. In the initial consultation we discuss what usually happens for you in crisis and which local services, crisis lines or contacts you can turn to. If you notice an increase in symptoms between sessions, we bring that directly into the next meeting and adjust the focus or pace if needed. If crises become frequent or safety is unstable, we may need to reconsider the frame or involve other services alongside the work.
If you've been in therapy, read the books, done the practices — and still find yourself circling the same reactions — the initial consultation is where we determine whether a structured block of work can realistically change that pattern.